My Adult Ideas

Love has many soft feelings such as you hurt, breakups and sometimes sad emotions. Actually my good friend looks hurt and soft when it comes to love and say I am handsome. Actually, I am not handsome and softat all. I took him to a good buffet lunch and we talked about internet dating near at Manila. Yes, internet dating was important to our life. I did not do buffets well. Predictably I had chicken and sushi on my plate. My friend had dim sum and pizza on hers. We're not soul mates at all.

Love is actually easy when you just stop making it into such a career or soul. I once read The Rules and even though I dismissed it as some propagandist literature by spinsters, that two day rule always stuck to the back of my head. If adages find themselves still relevant in morally casual world, then adopting some old-fashioned romantic touches in our lives can make these cliche's not just relevant.

Let’s face it: between Facebook, SMS, emailing, twitter and Skype, the romantic landscape has changed. These can be used in internet dating. I have broken up with “sort” over e-mail, making Carrie Bradshaw’s scandal-ridden Post it breakup humane. At least that one was handwritten. It was not one of my happiest moments.

One day you’ll find yourself falling in love again. Bipolar caressing, crying and laughing at the same time while doubting yourself like those carefree days of lying in your crumpled bed, alone and agnostic. Your only deity is ice cream. But then, as lovely and blithe as it is, it’s also empty. There are handsome and beautiful people whom you will come to love in your life will disappoint you; sometimes they will break your heart. Ye, here they are showing up in almost a cinematic manner when you’re at your most wet-cardboard self. Adages confirm themselves upon receipt. Loving them will bring you back to life again, introducing you all over to rehabbed pains, fears and longings like new. Then after all things you learned from the buffet test, the self-help gridlock, you’ll find that behind all the questions and doubts is heart pregnant with love and hope. We’re all emotional road kill of our past. We’re all scared. The older we get, the more aware we are which is a double-edged sword. It can cut and protect you at the same time.

There will be lessons to learn, like amber cologne, but there will always be the anticipation of the tension of the unknown. There are no rules and caressing, just new days and I could find my soul mates especially using the internet dating.